So sorry to hear the latest. I have to say that whatever happens, you are going to have to do your homework…case in point, my uncle was in a “rehab facility” where after a while, he was just languishing. He was moved to an excellent nursing home where he has continued therapy and they are on TOP of everything, and I do mean everything and the staff is super…so, my point is, just be aware that whatever happens, when dealing w/this kind of situation, offense is the key. Best of luck and more importantly, praying for you both.